A Strange Island
This thought experiment has similarities to Berger and Luckmann's
claims from a Social Construction of Reality in their discussion
about sexuality. But to allow for a clearer marker of what exactly
genes are structuring for or not structuring for we have to sharpen
such an example a little more.
(think of The Village by M. Night Shyamalan)
So, we take an island, or a very large enclosed space for greater
control. Perhaps with the help of confederates at first, we create a
culture or society. Except in this society it is all one sex, which
we will take as all male. This society has also been configured to
have zero knowledge about the female sex, either in humans or other
species. We have to limit scientific knowledge a little bit on such
an account, but we could still have their knowledge be rather robust
in many other ways. In general, this culture and social structure
looks much like ours, except there is only one sex and only knowledge
of one sex (and hence desires, beliefs, intentions all only engage
one sex.)
Now, we are going to imagine any set of genes that are born or
brought as a baby to be raised on such an island. My intuitions, similar to Berger and Luckmann's claim, is that all humans here
would experience sexual urges and engage in sexual activity (not to
say there are not ways to do away with sex altogether).
Furthermore, I am going to argue that they would have sexual desires,
that is, they would have a sexual mental life. And, no matter whether
their genes or epigenetic structuring were “heterosexual” or
“homosexual,” such sexual urgings would most likely be towards
other males. This is where terminological problems erupt, even for
most scientific and psychological descriptions as regards our own
society. For most uses of the idea of heterosexual or homosexual, the
common cultural parlance of sexuality within our cultural sphere is
being used, and such a use would not permit a “heterosexual” male
to have sexual thoughts, desires and behaviors towards other males
for their entire life. When describing genetic considerations, say
from evolutionary development, what is taken to inhere in the gene
takes a certain social world as given. Assuming certain fixed
environmental conditions is a good strategy on one level, it works
for evolution's “desires,” but when describing a relationship
between genes and behavior, when actually understanding what genes
are going to be coding for, it often leads to empty statements.
Terminology aside, there are facets that we can explore about
behavior. There are many things that we think as part of our
sexuality that are environmentally and culturally contextual. Our
culture encourages our desires and thoughts to have certain
parameters. Heterosexual males in our society not only like females,
generally speaking, but they in general like them even more when they
show their femininity in certain, expressive ways, say in socially
normative way. Due to our large mental and associational abilities,
we create categories and attach unnecessary things in unlockable ways
within our brain/minds and within our cultural beliefs.
Back to our male-only island, assuming we are right that all
individuals on the island are having sexual relationships, even the
most “heterosexual” oriented male on this island will not one day
turn to their partner(s) and say something like “I enjoy your
rather large breasts, your less hairy body, and your smaller penis,
but I get the idea that something is wrong, that perhaps there should
not be a penis there at all. I cannot quite conceive of what should
be there . . .” These kind of thoughts do not occur. As far as
questions of whether there may still be some kind of bifurcation of
behaviors and thought, such as the possibility that those we would
conceive of as “heterosexual” and “homosexual” end up
choosing partners in a relatively different way or with different
characteristics, it is questionable what kind of effects would
follow. Or it may be that the cultural and environmental situation
would essentially eat up what we see as expressed as far as sexually
divergent behaviors. There is good reason to think that even if some
kind of bifurcation is happening, all individuals in the end are
still having sex with another male. Which throws a wrench into how we
think about sexuality for the most part.
Following on previous posts on identity, there is a gap between what
your self is and what your genes are. There is a great cultural chasm that
shapes possible behaviors, which is why I argue we are blank slates.
The set of genes that makes up any individual, if they were raised on
our island, would be a significantly different individual, different
self than what they are or have become within the parameters of our
present society. The radical differences in behavior, mean radical
differences in “mental” conceptions. They mean radical
differences in attitudes and even emotions. It is a different mental
process to be having thoughts about having sex with a male than it is
to be having thoughts about having sex with a female. Our present
culture probably overestimates those differences, perhaps because we
over highlight and over-create gender and sex differences. And, as
can be seen through simple analysis or through artistic expression,
there are of course many similarities to being in any kind of
relationship, and thus many mental thoughts about such things may be
parallel.
The bottom line however is that behavioral and mental processes are
going to be significantly different based on social structures,
social institutions, and discourses. On our island we have shadowed
out “heterosexual” desires and emotions, but we can go through
endless other (actualizable) social thought experiments that would
mean a certain given set of genes would become a robust self but not
have the behavior, emotional, or characteristic response that we want
to claim attaches to our genes in some way. That does not mean that
genes are not structuring and limiting and encouraging different
behaviors, only that they do not do it inevitably so to create a given characteristic of a given self. Such an
understanding thus makes our behaviors and mental world infinitely malleable.
Another important point from Berger and Luckmann: It is madness to
think we do not control our social and discursive worlds. I deny free
will and we can argue for the dialectical buildup of social
structures, discourses, and norms, but we have to accept that we are
capable of changing a great deal of our social worlds. And though
much of this we could only do after we have become knowledgeable,
more reflective adults, it does not mean we could not setup
significantly different worlds around children that would mean they
become vastly different than what our current structures create. This
essentially happens every generation as social norms, technologies,
and institutions change. We have to accept that we can set up the
island from above. Most of us would
define that as a world we want nothing to do with, but all of our
social institutions and structures have to be considered within our
grasp. Furthermore, we are born into families, communities,
nations, and a broader world, including the specific time frame and
all that comes with it. As individuals we do not control the entirety
of those institutions, structures, and discourses (“moral” norms,
for one). But, in time, we can make significant changes to such
worlds, especially those institutions and discourses more immediately
within our personal and familial spheres. We can within limited
communities speak different thoughts.
Though I would argue that we do not have personal, sexual and family
relationships that are as healthy as they should be across most
swaths of society, and I believe there are significant changes that
can be made on such accounts, the world that is most necessary for
change (from where I stand) is the socializational/educational world
we set up around most (really all) individuals. As to sexual identity
and politics, obviously the first thing that needs to happen is the
naturalizing of humans, to see sex for the act that it is, to see
drives and emotions for what they are. Which means that any
politicizing or moralizing of sexual acts have to be ignored as complete
stupidities. The idea that any sexual act, such that is consensual
and not obviously problematic, should be considered deviant, a sin,
socially degrading, or whatever, such people should quite frankly be
ignored as they come to the public or political sphere. And that is happening to some degree, I think. Though preachers may still say homosexuality and other sexual acts are sins or inherently wrong, most politicians refrain from doing so, even as they implement policies from such thought.
Lastly, we have the identity politics of the day. Such discourses
have suffered both from a poor understanding of human development but
also suffered as people tried to expand social protections to all
individuals. In doing so they found a “born this way” narrative
to be empowering, which makes sense from an argumentative and
political point of view. I would argue (probably almost
libertarian-like, which I am
about as far from as possible) that a better argument is just that
personal choices, behaviors and ways of being are not to be
interfered with unless there is evidence that they provide any social
problems. People have a freedom to express identity in whatever way
they find sensible and empowering, especially when it involves the
stupidities of our more animalian bases. As we pull the thread,
unravel why we are the way we are and how we can organize social
institutions and our selves so that we are the way we want to be,
empty moral notions and even moral language around issues like this
simply have to be set to the side.